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Ā Welcome! I'm so glad you're here. My mission with The Real Poetic Paradox is to offer my clients a deeper understanding of how early childhood experiences and conditioning can impact queer adult relationships, and to bring greater awareness of what's happening with our nervous systems when we begin to feel unsafe in love, which often leads to heartbreak and confusion.Ā 

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The Art of Staying:

The Self-Trust Method for Love That Doesn’t Cost You Yourself

Recognize when you abandon yourself in love.
Create safety inside when intimacy feels unsafe.
Discern fear from truth, choose self-trust over self-betrayal.

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